I'll tell you what really gets me butthurt; when people always try to get you to spend time chatting with them on skype. Why should I spend time just chatting aimlessly for hours, when there's nothing to even set out talking about? That's literally hours of my day, time I could be spending doing anything else, spent with them. And you know what the punchline is? It's not even that fun, it just leaves you with your brain feeling overworked for trying to think of things to say, or just wishing you could do other things.
Lemme tell you about this girl who just messaged me telling me she wants to chat. I have a way with people, I am really blunt in my honesty, because the way I see it being honest is one of the most transgressive things you can possible be in this society. I told this girl, "I'm not really in the mood for just chatting all the time, seriously no offense but I generally don't chat that often with people on skype. Every once and a while is okay either way." and she tells me "if your fine with me being less interested in you because of this". What the fuck is this coercive behavior? Last time I was this blunt with someone, it was telling this guy on steam who keeps hitting on me I don't like to be hit on, and he removed me, but why do I have to be all of a sudden accountable for how much time I spend with a person? You have no idea how much I hate it when people do this.
So, I'm sure I'm not alone in feeling this way. I know this isn't some delusional fantasy inside my head, there must be millions or possibly billions of other people who don't like to be bothered. Seriously, I could be discovering new art, listening to new music, reading a book (which I often do every single day), anything other than just idol chit chat with someone. Seriously seriously seriously seriously seriously, and you know what the worst part of it is? It's always online, the only place where people ever want to talk is online. Seriously, I don't want to spend time sitting around with my headset and microphone talking to my computer, for fuck sake. Maybe it would be worth while if I was, say, talking to some friends in person, I don't know. At least then it wouldn't feel like talking to a god damn computer. People in today's world have become much too dependent on the internet and it's disgusting, the internet and computer as we know it is disgusting. It has immeasurable benefits, but it's also disgusting, in the way it's effect us humans on an individual level. We've become a hybrid society of human and internet.
